5 challenges a financial midlife MOT could help you overcome

Your midlife can be an exciting time; you may have ticked off some goals or bucket list items and are looking forward to what the future holds. Yet, it might also present some new challenges. Arranging a financial midlife MOT could help you overcome obstacles and feel confident as you prepare for the next chapter.

While you might have a better understanding of what you want to get out of life than when you were younger, finances can often become more complex, making it difficult to understand what’s possible. A financial midlife MOT gives you a chance to examine your finances now and calculate if you’re on track to reach your aspirations.

Here are five common challenges a financial MOT could help you navigate.

1. Merging your finances with a partner

As you start to consider retirement and your future, you may opt to merge finances with your partner if you don’t already.

Bringing together your finances can be challenging at any time, but particularly when you’re older, as you may both already hold assets, such as pensions or property. Working with a financial planner could help you take stock of your assets and start to understand how they might form part of your financial plan as a couple.

As well as juggling two sets of assets, you might have different views on financial priorities and long-term goals.

As your financial plan places your aspirations at the centre, a midlife MOT could help you clarify your priorities and balance them with your partner’s.

2. Planning for your retirement

66% of people aged between 45 and 49 feel unprepared for retirement, according to research from LV published in June 2025.

Retirement might feel years away, but it’s a milestone that benefits from early preparation. The decisions you make now could affect your income in your later years, so weighing up your options is essential.

A financial midlife MOT can include reviewing your pensions and other assets you intend to use in retirement to calculate if you have “enough” to live the retirement lifestyle you’re looking forward to.

You could find you’re already on track and enjoy peace of mind as a result. If you discover there’s a potential shortfall, knowing this sooner puts you in a stronger position to bridge the gap, and a financial plan highlights the steps you might take.

3. Balancing care responsibilities

While you might no longer have young children to care for, you could find that you still have care responsibilities during your midlife.

In fact, according to December 2024 research from Legal & General, 1 in 6 middle-aged people support other adults financially, such as grown-up children or elderly parents.

If this isn’t something you’ve considered as part of your financial plan, it could make it harder to budget now and may affect your financial security in the future.

It’s not just your finances that care duties may affect. 1 in 7 midlifers said they provide unpaid care, with hours equivalent to a part-time job. Around half said they feel overwhelmed by their weekly commitments. This can take a toll on your overall wellbeing.

A financial plan that’s focused on what’s important to you could help you balance new responsibilities with your personal goals. For example, you might pay for a carer a few times a week so you’re still able to attend social clubs that you enjoy.

4. Improving your financial resilience

While you might have ticked off some financial commitments, such as paying your mortgage or children’s school fees, it’s still important to ensure you could withstand a financial shock. Your income stopping or facing an unexpected bill often has the potential to derail your plans.

A midlife review gives you the opportunity to evaluate your financial security and assess how you’d cope with an unexpected event.

You might check if you hold enough cash in your emergency fund or review your financial protection to see if you have an adequate safety net. While you hope never to need it, a financial safety net can provide reassurance and protection if the unexpected happens.

5. Setting out your legacy

It’s easy to think that you don’t need to consider how you’ll pass on assets to your loved ones yet. However, it’s impossible to know what’s around the corner, and there may be benefits to passing on wealth during your lifetime rather than waiting to leave an inheritance.

Putting together an estate plan can be difficult. Not only are you bringing together all your assets and considering how circumstances may change in the coming decades, it’s also an emotional topic. So, if it’s something you’ve been putting off, you’re not alone.

It may be daunting at first, but your estate plan allows you to take control of your legacy. As your financial planner, we can help you create an estate plan that gives you long-term security while supporting the people who are important to you.

Contact us to arrange a financial midlife MOT

Get the most out of your life by feeling confident about your finances. Please contact us to talk to one of our team members and arrange a financial review.

Please note: This blog is for general information only and does not constitute financial advice, which should be based on your individual circumstances. The information is aimed at retail clients only.

The value of your investments (and any income from them) can go down as well as up, and you may not get back the full amount you invested. Past performance is not a reliable indicator of future performance.

Investments should be considered over the longer term and should fit in with your overall attitude to risk and financial circumstances.

A pension is a long-term investment not normally accessible until 55 (57 from April 2028). The fund value may fluctuate and can go down, which would have an impact on the level of pension benefits available. Past performance is not a reliable indicator of future performance.

The tax implications of pension withdrawals will be based on your individual circumstances. Thresholds, percentage rates, and tax legislation may change in subsequent Finance Acts. 

Note that life insurance and financial protection plans typically have no cash in value at any time, and cover will cease at the end of the term. If premiums stop, then cover will lapse.

Cover is subject to terms and conditions and may have exclusions. Definitions of illnesses vary from product provider and will be explained within the policy documentation.

The Financial Conduct Authority does not regulate estate planning.

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